I met my fiance on Eharmony and she has no problems with my CDing at all. I highly recommend though staying away from PoF. I looked into PoF and match.com before joining Eharmony. Thing is with PoF/Match anyone can make a free profile so you have no idea who is real, who is going to respond, who actually is serious, etc etc. Plus the chance of running into a con is higher. Eharmony cost a lot of money but when your talking to someone at least you know they put down a lot of money just to be able to talk to you (you have to pay to even look at pictures). I recommend it.
My angle on CDing and Eharmony. I have seen CD profiles on dating sites before and the problem that glares at me is they talk about it at too much. 75% (or higher_ of their profile is made up about them being a cross dresser, explaining they aren't gay, explaining this/that everything else. Keep it simple about what you do, throw it out there and let it sit. Go into a lot of other details about yourself outside your a cross dresser.
