Question to the CDers who would date a man

[Lorileah]

In other words only if they act on their fantasy or sexual attraction but then there is experimentation, if they try it and don't like it they are still straight right?

well maybe a little bent. And once you have tasted forbidden fruit... There is an old joke, just because you drove a race car once does not mean they will cal you a race car driver, but have sex once with a man one time and you are gay forever ....

I feel that if you had sex with a man or crossdresser and didn't like it your were bi-curious, if you liked it it would make you bi-sexual. Either way no one should really label you or judge you.

So if you had sex with a woman and you didn't like having sex with that woman...you would be hetero-curious, even though maybe there was another woman somewhere who could knock your socks off?

I bring this up because I have been with a woman who wasn't very good at sex. She complained and she didn't participate much. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoyed MYSELF but could not wait to leave. OTOH I had a GF who could keep me going for hours and hours and still wanted more. Also I have been with men who were not much fun at all (more common than a woman) but then I have been with a couple of guys who I would live with for ever too.

I understand what you are saying and I sort of agree. Some people won't say they don't like something until they try it. But I disagree with the tense of the statement. You are probably still bi-curious just not practicing