Well, where else are surveyors to find CDers, except those who are out in public? How on earth do we get CDers who are deep in the closet and who do not even attend support groups, to answer questionnaires? My SO and I belong to a rather large TG support group. I would say that the people who attend are representative of the members in this forum. They talk about the same things at dinner. They have the same concerns, they look about the same as the members who post pics in the Gallery. So why would the 1,000 CDers who attend support groups and who agreed to take the survey be different from anyone else? :rolleyes:Originally Posted by sometimes_miss
SometimesMiss, do take the time to read the research I posted. Look at all the questions and answers objectively. You will see that it pretty much mirrors the membership in this forum.
Who ever said that wives should be attracted to their husbands while crossdressed? We're talking about a level of support that enables the CDer to express himself while retaining his marriage, aren't we? Laila did mention that the concern is divorce and not that the wife should be attracted to the CDing? I fully support my SO, as you know, and I love him deeply. Yet I am not attracted to women. But, we work that out, just like all the other successful marriages in this forum.
EDIT - I posted this link earlier, and I'll post it again for the benefit of the few members who posted just before this post. They are stories from people in this forum who do have supportive or tolerant wives. And again, these are not all the threads, just the ones that a few people thought to tag for the tag cloud:
SUPPORTIVE AND TOLERANT WIVES AND SOs
