Quote Originally Posted by ClosetED View Post
An alternate view on this:
Some of us do not have supportive SOs, so meeting with a stranger is very worrisome to a non-supportive spouse. Fears run high when there is no communication about the CDing aspects, per request of the SO. So meeting with someone may be viewed as a possible love affair (with a woman from appearances or 'he really is gay' if a man). The non-supportive SO may be fearful of the CDer being outed by this person and therefore their comfort is at risk. DADT relationships are not good, but it is what many SOs ask for ..............
Ellen
I think you make a very good point here, especially about the suspected "affair". We all have our individual circumstances but in my case, I think my wife would wonder if I told her I was going somewhere to meet someone I met on a crossdressing forum.