Meeting fellow members is one of the best things you can do when traveling away from home. I have met several ladies from this site, on their terms, and had wonderful times getting to know them. Some were dressed, some were not. We don't always have our kit with us, but don't let that stop you from dropping a note to someone local where you are going.
I was in Boise last August and dropped a note to Jennifer to see if we could meet. Unfortunately, she was in NoCal doing her bike thing while I was in town. But we tried, and that's what counts.
I will be on an European cruise with my wife next month. Since we are DADT, Heidi will not have her wardrobe with her. But I have still made arraignments to meet with another member in Amsterdam when the ship is there. Due to their schedule, they too will be drab. To others it will look like two guys out for a beer or two. But the conversation will not be about football! All I did was ask them if they wanted to meet and told them the time. No one has ever turned me down if their schedule can fit me in.
Just email or PM and ask if you want to do something. You'll learn a lot about them and about yourself!
You can do the same with me. I live in Litle Rock, where major cross country routes I-30 and I-40 meet. If you are passing thru on a road trip, let me know and we can go have a beer or a meal. No matter how we are dressed at the time!