i ask before.. if you saw Leah first would you still date her ? .
Nope. Which says a lot about how I need to to adjust and sort out my feelings on the subject.
Tree GG explained this very well. Her feelings are my feelings. So, my response to the parts where you said that his male side is still there, read her post.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.