The thing is, from what I understand is that Leah does not know if she is "just" a cd'er or wants (ok not "wants" but *is*) to be a TS, or perhaps somewhere in the middle even.
Sobe does not want to be with a woman. If she is attracted to males how can she expect to be attracted to a female (rhetorical question)? It all matters, the outside and the inside. What's wrong w/her wanting what she is attracted to which is a male physically (again rhetorical)?
There is no accepting, adjusting or compromising to be done, if Leah decides she needs to transition. Sobes desires are just as important as Leahs. It's not about worrying about what the world would see her as, it's about what Sobe is attracted to, what she desires, whats the core of that.
I think Sobe feels as though she is in limbo and Leah probably feels the same way.
I havent seen Sobe post in a few days. Sobe I am thinking of you. I also think Sobe needs to take back some of herself and I think she is trying to do that now.
Thank you Sobe.
