Hi again, girls...
Hers is another of those "UH-OH! Zara's doin too much thinking again" posts.
I've been involved with this for over 10 years now. Small potatoes based on what I've read in these forums recently, but in that time, I've come to learn and grow as an individual because of what I've experienced, witnessed and read. Maybe its the Psychology student in me.. but I'm always curious.
So many threads about having to tell ones S/O about their secret. So much pain that I see people endure either before, during, or after their revelation to those around them.
This question is particularly for the MARRIED/or about to BE, and CLOSETED Crossdressers. It is merely to know more about your mindset, not to judge, ridicule, or to put you on the spot. It is presented in the past tense as well as future tense.
When you go about your days as a single person and exploring your femme side, you KNOW that it is possible that you will someday meet the right person to (presumably) share the rest of your life with. Knowing that you are already a crossdresser... why won't you/why didn't you tell them before you get/got married?
