Quote Originally Posted by Lady Zarabeth View Post

When you go about your days as a single person and exploring your femme side, you KNOW that it is possible that you will someday meet the right person to (presumably) share the rest of your life with. Knowing that you are already a crossdresser... why won't you/why didn't you tell them before you get/got married?
I guess, if we all thought about it, we WOULD tell our significant others very early in the relationship. But it wasn't about thinking. It was just complete & total fear. And once the fear really sets in thought is pretty much impossible.

We met, sparks flew, it was exciting. It was exactly what I wanted. And I couldn't even consider telling her at that time in 2001. I had spent 20 years hiding this from EVERYone. At all costs. Why should my significant other be any different?

I don't expect it to make SENSE, proper. But like I say, when you're acting out of fear...

TAC