Kris is there a social group you could join, to maybe get to know others like us ? The more you get to know others the more chance that a GG might show up among them.
And as far as picking a mate, don't discount one because she may not be perfect. I have some GG friends who are BBW, and I wouldn't hesitate to date them. It's all in the heart Kris.

I just read a joke a GG friend of mine sent to her group of friends, me being one.

"If your looking for Mr right, and he's kind, gentle, sweet, considerate and a great conversationalist, he's probably gay."

I found it rather insulting because I have the same qualities and I'm not gay.
But then all CD's are gay, are they not ! :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
And no my GG friend does not know. She would be totally freaked out by it.