Quote Originally Posted by racquel937 View Post
Believe me, I've got plenty masculine traits when I'm wearing a skirt, and I'm not disparaging anyone just because they're not embarking on the road to full-on gender reassignment.

What I mean is that leaving the massive biker 'stache on and thinking you're feminine just because you're wearing a little lingerie -- while putting zero actual effort into being attractive (and I'm thinking of a particularly scary pic I got from a seriously hairy guy nearly buck naked on his bed) I must say -- is an insult to femininity. And the fact that he thinks he can just put it out there like that with no attempt at tact is an insult to masculinity.
Please elaborate on "putting effort" into gender identity. Maybe you can redeem how shallow and narrow that paragraph sounded.