GOOFUS

Okay, there were at least two SA's in the store and the one that was watching me like a hawk was definitely not young. It was after dark but not close to closing time.

So here is what happened. You were spotted during 20 min by an experienced SA who WAITED till you went out without buying to call the cops and "somebody" banned you.

Clearly it has nothing to do with suspition, but with discrimination.
Why it has nothing to do with suspition:
- You did not act supitiously, you acted diferently than an average customer of course, but I'm sure you did not act as a shoplifter, or a robber. You probably did not look to how to run out the store, nor hidded your face from the surveillance videocam etc... And an experienced SA would know you definitivly were not a shoplifter. By the way how were you dressed? shoplifter use big coat were they can "store" merchandise, were you using close to the body jacket or coat? Anyway from what you say it appears to me you did not seamed suspect of shoplifting at all
- The SA did not call the police in the first 5 minutes she saw you. If she was really thinking you were about doing something illegall she would not have taken any chance to wait and see what happen. She knew you were not preparing a criminal action. She waited till you went out so she could put the cops on you OUTSIDE the store, to keep maintaining the sales, and leting you being embarassed outside, without embarassing the "normal" customer.

So if you were embarassed and banned not because of any suspition, why was it? Probably because the SA did not like you. She saw you were "problematic" she saw you were not a shoplifter but she assumed you were or a pervert trying to touch underwear, or look to the girls, or if she knows about crossdressing she recognized you as a crossderesser. Anyway she saw you as a pervert not a robber or a shoplifter. She knew from the begining you were harmless, and did not call the cops, til you went out, just followed you with her "hawk" eyes making you feel unconfortable (after all being followed by her is one of the reason you felt bad and did not buy anything).


Again I will recommend not feeling bad after this experince. You are the victim of somebody who though you were a "pervert" was never afraid, did not think you were a shoplifter. You were discriminated for being a crossdresser. You commited no crime. The SA is the person who should feel bad for missunderstanding what you are, and discriminating you and banning you.

Kisses
Carla