I'd just like to add a GG comment here:
Personally, I have no prob with a husband/bf en femme, however, other GG friends say that "I am weird" because of it too.
My feeling is that secrets do more to damage a relationship than CDing ever could. In a healthy relationship, both parties should trust the other and feel safe confiding in each other. When one side feels they must hide something from the other, than there is a problem with the relationship. You should never have to feel afraid of your loved ones. Regardless of what the secret is, any secret means that there is not enough faith-trust in the relationship. As much as wives will hate to admit it, if their husband is afraid of her, than most likely she has a problem, not him. Well, at least that's how I feel about it.
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And what would I say to the wives and gf's who disapprove and get upset over the husband en femme, is this: What is on the outside is not important. It's what's on the inside that counts. Everyone has feelings. No one likes having their feelings hurt. Everyone wants to look good. No one should be punished for dressing in a way that makes them feel good.
