Quote Originally Posted by Eelkat
Regardless of what the secret is, any secret means that there is not enough faith-trust in the relationship.
I missed this bit when I posted earlier still had sleep in my eyes. But I too disagree with this, it isn't lack of faith-trust it's fear of not knowing what the partner will say or do. I kept a kind of secret when I first found out, why didn't I tell because of what I've just said fear of not knowing how Nigella would re act.