"...from prospective SOs. .."

Why do I get the feeling that your search for a girlfriend is kinda like going to the pound to search for a lapdog?

If one after another woman drops you after you tell 'em about the pantie thing, it's not the panties! Like a few others have said or hinted at...it's something about your presentaion or attitude that's making them uneasy. Just like me!

I'm not sensing a whole lotta respect for women here. If I'm wrong, then what we got here is a failure to communicate. If I'm right, then you'll never find a girlfriend that'll please you in this modern age.

Sorry if this is a little harsh, but that's what my reading of your original and subsequent post says to me. (Despite your other thread about taking care of your GG!)

Ya need to stop thinking of your pantie thing as a curse. This little thing is coloring your appreciation of people and relationships.