Quote Originally Posted by Donna Michelle View Post
I did! Well, not the most selfish person I've known, but I did say I thought she was selfish. My wife totally agrees. This particular forum is for m2f to say how they feel. That is how we feel. She can redeem herself by apologizing and buying her husband something pretty.
Seriously? I find that rather ignorant. You don't know why the wife chose to give the clothes to charity, so I'll give you a scenario shall I?

Wife has put weight on, is throwing out all her clothes that don't fit her anymore, not because she just doesn't want them... she doesn't want to give them to the SO because they would fit him better...

What if that is the reason eh? How would that make her feel seeing him wearing clothes that used to fit her and she loved wearing... it would make her feel like crap. But this is just a scenario.

One more thing to add, these clothes, they are HER CLOTHES, to do with whatever she likes, if she wants to give them to charity, that is her choice, she bought them, she can do what she likes with them. She is not happy about the CD'ing, she doesn't want to give him her stuff and I don't blame her in the slightest. Why should she? She can't get a handle on this as it is, why would she think to give her husband her clothes?

I'm sorry, but I think a few people on this forum need to get their facts straight about this whole thing.

You can slam me all you like, I'm here to defend myself, and I couldn't really care less what is said, but you are not going to come here and slam someone who can't defend themselves, they aren't selfish at all, just a struggling wife.