Quote Originally Posted by trax1225 View Post
I think I might know why a GG may feel less feminine when with a CD. In my case (and, I know, not all Cders do this) my husband eventually told me that he switched bodies during sex with me – you know – him as a woman and me as a man. He kept trying to get me to masculinize my body (grow hair and wear his briefs, etc). Where, exactly did that leave me? As a woman who wanted to be desired for herself? He could not get turned on without these fantasies. Eventually, I felt so – I don’t know – not there, that I didn’t want anything to do with sex. I didn’t feel feminine anymore. I felt used.

Trace
Trace, sorry you had to experience that weirdo behavior. I would never ask a woman to act masculine, I liked my wife (when I was married) to act very feminine, that is what I am attracted to. My ex was very feminine and I loved it, and I was masculine in bed. my crossdressing had nothing to do with sex for me. I can now understand why you did not feel feminine anymore after your experiences with your husband. again sorry you had to experience that. Viv.
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