Lee Andrews is here to seek support and advice with his relationship. That is what this is about. Many of us have perspectives to offer that are valuable. That is why he came here.
The OFF-TOPIC crap dilutes the thread and just starts conflict in a space that is supposed to be supportive. Who looks better doesn't belong in this thread - or this forum for that matter.
I agree with Holly. We all change. It comes naturally with time. How we can deal with that change in ourselves and in our SO shapes our ability to navigate these waters. It is not easy.
