Do you want to go dressed out side? How much time out do you want to do it. How far do you want to go with it E.T.C. lazer hair removle , breast implants, vioce altered, adams apple removel, hormones, all that will be in the back of her mind. If she asks you (WHY) do you CD and you can't say why ( like most of us can't explaine why) a girl from here told me a great way to respond to is is to ask them," Are you left handed or right handed" when they say right or left handed you say " why" they will not be able to say why just that they were born that way and you say " RIGHT same here." I think you must tell her now not later. It's not that you wear Women's "stuff" , It's the LIE they will hate more. You will have to explaine to her that you did not think you needed to dress untill just a little while ago. Then tell her you need ,want to do this and it is part of who you are, when she frist meet you that was part of you ,and even you did not know the full you then. Tell her how much better you feel now that you LOVE YOURSELF fully now then you did before. And of course tell her how much she means to you . Tell her if she does not want you to do this that that whould be repressing a very big part of you sole or (HEART) by doing that. If you think you need to tell her after the semster then do it. This could also be the best news she has ever gotten, It could be a big stress releaf vlave. Some GG's love CDs but don't know it untill they find out while in the relationship. I have told most of my girl friends and all of them loved it and wanted to dress me up right then. I told them that I was not ready for that yet. Y N K . I hope you will have a + chat with her ,Well I hope this helped. HUGGS.:canada: