I am weeping with you now. I weep because whether in drab or drag, I see me in the mirror. Anyone that does not understand that does not understand crossdressing. You, like many of us, finally decided to be truthful to ourselves and our SO's. And, often that release brings pain.
Stopping the acknowlegment of our real selves is about as realistic as amputating our legs and then being expected to be a professional runner.
We should love because we choose to love unconditionally. That goes for SO's, too.
You do not need to be "fixed". Your genetic code and brain hormonal levels are you.
It is those with ignorance, hate and bigotry that need to be "fixed" including your wife that you have loved and served faithfully for thirty years!
My love and prayers are with you.
Liz
