I kept it from my wife for years then I slipped up - and YOU at some point will slip up and be found out. She don't like any part of it but there is now honesty in our relationship at last and she hasnt left me. Had I told her at the start, I dont know whether we would be together. She hates the fact that I lied to her a million times more than that I am a CD.. But that's me and not you

mitch