Markie;

I join the others here in wishing you AND you family the best, you all are in my prayers.

I think you and your spouse should try counseling, if you are both willing.

I hope you are not liquidating anything that is legaly and ethicly owned by your family as well (spouse, and kids)

If you are preparing for a seperation/divorce, then you need to work it out with your spouse NOW before lawyers are called for. (remember 1/2 plus child support and alomony is better then 1/4 and whatever else the judge decides)

I would also talk to other forum members who have worked things out with their spouse.

It sounds like you are are putting a plug in a volcano, it will eventually explode.

Best wishes

Kelly


Quote Originally Posted by markie v View Post
Well the Wife figured out what I was going to Therapy for, well she asked and I told her.

Well to make a long story short..... I canceled all my Therapy.

I decided for the time being I rather live with my Children and Wife cause I can not afford to be on the street and loose everything I own at this time. I will slowly start to liquidate my belongings so when the time comes I will be prepared.

I told her I would not persue changing my Gender. However there will be a time when either the kids are old enough or something else happens where I can persue who I really am.

Anyway I am sticking around cause this is a very helpful forum.

I have made some friends here and I want to meet some of you someday.

You cant get rid of the feelings for who you really are, however you can choose to not show them and keep them to yourself and enjoy them when you are alone.