What would you do when face with the ultimatum.

[MarcieM]

Yeah, in the same way dying is!!
Prove to me that someone can give up C/Ding by just deciding too and they dont have mental issues as a result.
Can you give up by willpower alone?

Yes, you can if you want to bad enough. You're making this sound like a heroin addiction. It's not the same.

That is the point .... it is not for many

Cd-ing is absolutely a choice, unless we're talking about forced feminization, and everyone knows that doesn't happen.