Carin,

The "intersection" talked about in this thread should be a perfectly happy place to be for those who want to be there..or those who find themselves there and feel good about it...maybe we should call you a transgendual!!!! that way you'll have a label too!!!(sarcasm off)

i think labels are just one groups way of trying to put themselves above others, or as way of getting something..if one group is viewed as better, then people will feel pressure to join that group, or they will "fight" to protect the group they are in and this creates us vs them, this is certainly true in the straight vs queer world, the queer vs tg world (ENDA anyone?), but even in our community of "gender variant" people it can be true and i think thats sad....

one day at a time as my therapist says...and kudos to you Carin, your head is on straight and you seem pretty centered and happy!!! :drink:...