I like orgasms as much as the next person, but I always thought the whole messy part was ... well ... messy. If you want to know what it feels like to have an orgasm without ejaculating, just push down on the back part of your perineum and you won't ejaculate. That's how I've done it for the past 15 years, and I like it just fine.
Is now really a good time? I mean, with interest rates being down and all...