A lot of territory/topics/questions to cover in your posts....
So let me simply say this....
Your hoping for a lot from society....
A society that finds faults/differences in color of skin, ethenticity, religious beliefs, political views, one's level of financial wealth or lack of...and lets not forget sexual preferences both hertosexual and otherwise....
So this being the case, you expect society to be more kinder and gentler towards the CD/TG community????? well dear like the other areas I have mentioned I'll say this...."not in this life time will it change"!!!!!
However, this probably is where it's at now..in general CDing and T/Ging world it is more at a "tolerated level" out in the public now and yes over time it will become more accepted and/or tolerated....but across the whole spectrum of society????? not anytime soon...people are still way to unable to accept a guy wearing woman clothes or a guy trying to be femminine to be able to say it's "normal"...and as long as normal is applied to CDing it won't be accepted anytime soon....