"society seems to have an issue (sometimes) with crossdressers"
SOMETIMES?????
Am I living in the same world with you people? Equality laws are being opposed by advertising that depicts Crossdressers as opportunistic bathroomn child molesters.
We are reviled by right wing hate groups on a daily basis - in print, on the web, and over the airwaves.
SOMETIMES?
I read posts on this board about cops being called to shadow shoppers in stores, wives screaming at husbands all night long, loss of visitation rights, fears of job loss and expulsion from the military...
SOMETIMES?
I wish.