I didn't read all the posts (there's lots of them) so sorry if someone's said this before, but yeah the important thing has already been said. Your a girl so why should you be nervous, your the same gender as half the population, so if you don't worry about it no one else will. I've been going out as Andrea for hmm heavens to betsy it's been 6 months now and the only comment I've gotten was from some drunk a-hole driving by. I think a majority of the people don't know and those who do are afraid of making a scene. I think that theory kinda breaks down when alcohol is involved but a bar wouldn't be the best place to go first.
