Renyta
Sorry you had that confrontation. But as we all know, no one understands this. Not even us.
As for earning the right, I don't get that. I don't recall the invoice coming to me. I understand your reply and we all have that same feeling. I still have not found the stone tablets that describe what is women's wear and what is men's. The only possible thing I can even think my be exclusively female is a bra but I know lots of guys who could benefit from one.
I believe it comes down to fear. We cannot even know why anyone reacts in the manner they do. We may never know what set this off in her. I have read your previous posts and I think that you can be and usually are a fairly manly individual. My suspect is that you care for her in a manly way but she could benefit from your caring and nurturing side also. We tend to be that way. For some reason when we become soft and caring (which is in the top ten hit parade of what women want in a man) they start to worry. It is all nurture in this case. It is what she was told. I just hope this didn't come from watching Springer this afternoon.
Take some time, try and get her to explain why she thinks it is an honor to wear a dress (I think a majority of GG's here will disagree because they can't understand why we would want to). Something happened here. If you can find out what it was you can maybe allay her fears.
I would hate to see what is required for us to "earn" the right to wear a dress. Trial by fire? Hormonal fluctuations (some of us have those so maybe we are earning that). I hope it is not anything more severe than that where we would need to lose something or someone to gain that right.
Good luck and you have my hope and caring that this will resolve.
