Hi Terri,
Huggs to you and I am so sorry to hear about this. I am fortunate enough now to have an SO that is ok with me having my femme clothes and make up here in the house, but still don't have anything nearly as elaborate as you have described. And if I were to come home and find it all gone one night, I would be devastated to. So my heart really goes out to you!
My best suggestion though is to try to enjoy the process of replacing what you had, maybe take the opportunity to try out a few some new styles and looks perhaps. I know it doesn't make up for the loss, but it is probably the best way to make lemonade out of these lemons.
Hang in there girlfriend and best of luck!
>>>huggs<<<
Pauline Lauren