I know you GGs get upset from time to time. But don't forget you honestly are superstars here at the forum. The great majority of CDs here want your approval and friendship for validation.

I see that out at the clubs here in Atlanta sometimes. A CD will bring her wife along. All the other CDs/Tgirls will swarm all over the GG wife having the time of their life chatting with a 'real' chick that is accepting.

A few threads or stray comments are sure to get your goat but are not representative of the majority. Frankly I feel for you girls and know that in most cases you thought you were with a macho hunky guy...only to find out later he was hiding that he is a CD from you. That has to be painful, but you are to be admired for adapting to the situation. But hey you have the right to try to set down some fair rules for how it is all going to go where both parties agree.