Ultra conservative, borish, and highly opinionated (usually incorrectly) talk show host who has been in trouble for the death of one of her guests (supposedly...note that I said supposedly) by driving her to suicide. Possibly involved with the death of a fiance (once again no proof) and rebuked for taking legal proceedings and making them a mockery. Other than that she is just pretty much a talking head on CNN.
Now in re: OP. Once again I am confused as to why this is difficult? You either want to keep your wife and marriage, or you don't so you need to work with her and find something that works. If you love her and she loves you, you can work so both of you are happy together. IF she does not love you (or you her) then it is time to move on. Life is too short to play silly games. You are not happy, she evidently isn't happy with you. Are you willing to work this out? Remember those two weeks were just that two weeks. If you got your wish and got to dress anytime you wanted, how long before you tired of that and wanted her back? I doubt it would work the other way. She most likely won't want you back as she has already made that evident by giving you an ultimatum before.
See I learn well from those talking heads on TV.





can you explain that bit for us please, I do not understand what you are saying here being a Brit, it sort of gets lost in translation
					
					
					
					
				