Please tell me you didn't really say that. Isn't that tantamount to "What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine also?" How would you have responded had someone 60 years ago said "women who wear slacks are crossdressers"? It was te way people thought back then. But women worked past that an made it as you say the norm. You are basically saying that men should not or cannot work toward that same goal?
Like I said before 40 years of working toward acceptance and tolerance shot down like a clay pigeon (Ok overtly masculine reference there)