Originally Posted by suchacutie
Yes Tina,
I did mean well, I always have, even though some may not be able to see it that way, sometimes the pink fog their in gets a bit to thick around them to see through it..
I'm a realist, and try to keep it real without lots of fluff, the world can be very cold & cruel at times, so sometimes I step in to bring it back down to reality before they hurt themselves, but most importantly, not hurt the others around them, but I have never forced anyone to do or not do as they want to, everyone has their own personal reasons..
I didn't come here with in intent to hurt anyone's feelings or judge anyone for what they do, nor force my thoughts down their throats, I know I dont like it when people do that to me, but sometimes words get crossed or people misinterpret what was written which I have no control over ..
I can fully relate to what your saying about being intense, I'm the same way & seems to be common trait among most of us here, although I call it compulsive behaviour & allows us to excel at what were doing at the time..
I was was with the same woman for 26 years, 20 of those in marriage, and have two teenage daughters that still love me very much, so I also know about commitment & also about living in two genders at the same time, I never broke my vows, she did, but in the end am much happier for it..
Peace & Best Wishes..
Hopefully, this thread can now get back on tract..
