Well, first of all, we either get labelled “lesbians” even if we like men…or confused, of course, the classic confused!
My family always said “but you were a model, a beautiful girl” no. I was a beautiful boy who presented as female because I had little choice.
Every partner I have had has wanted me as something I am not. They thought they could “turn me back into a girl” haha, haha, hahaaaaa…you can’t turn someone into something they weren’t beforehand. I’ve had lesbians pretend to like men, pretend to ID as bisexual to attempt to get with me. I’ve had men think I am less than them.
“When you become a man” yeah had that Kieron. Idiots, eh? OR! “I know you were a woman before” LOLAGE! I’ve had men ask me what size my chest is, if I have been “tampered with” erm, I’m not electronic you know?! [And other disgusting stuff]
BUT!, this is my favourite, said to me by a transwoman “you should be grateful with what you have cause I’d kill for your body, why get rid of it?” or “why would you want to be a man?”
-cripples laughing-
Oh and I had a lesbian spike me and attack me because I told her I was a male and she didn’t like that because I was a “traitor to women” =/ right…okay…
My previous girlfriend was domestically violent and knew she could get away with it because she had forced me to burn all bridges with my family, then started the physical and then AFTER saying all this bullsh*t about wanting me to feel what she felt sexually [as in touching me, WHAT?!] and then I got angry she said I couldn’t shout at her or hit her cause I was a man and it wasn’t allowed…I wouldn’t have hit her but wtf? LMAO…
I have more but it gets more and more violent and I am in a good mood right now so don’t really want to anger myself thinking about it.
We all get it tough, on both sides, everyone can encounter this sh*t, sexism whatever…but that is only a few examples of personal insults. I have received offensive comments from males, females and people from the whole LGBT “scene”. I’m sure MtFs get equal amounts of crap.