Hay. I don't have kids or a wife or a girl friend at the moment. But I think you both should sit down with all your kids and have a chat and let them ask questions. But like I said I don't have kids. I would like to think that I would tell me kids very early cuz I would be dressing at home from the time they would be born. But I am out to everybody I care about so if my next door apt dwellers know (and they do if they see me in the hall(and they do) when I am dressed) then so what. I think the way she responds to this will show her that being "caught" by someone unexpectedly is not the worst thing in the world. I think the worst thing in the world is to NOT do what you want and need to do , Like being who we are inside. Going out dressed as women as we do is not JUST to go out and "play" dress up like some people think we do. We do it to BE the real person we are , even if it's only for a few hours a day week month year. If you just say "oh I have time" sooner rather then later you find that you missed your chance to be yourself.

You are a great , Wonderful wife to be so ok with her being herself , you little girl is a testament of what great parents you two are. Congrats hun.

Oh is your wife/hubby on this site too.If so whats her name here. Thanks for the story is was funny and scary too. Have fun and be safe .