Amazing how people think here. 80% of people on CD.com are in the closet to the world and very few of those are out to even family, yet twice this week we have had threads asking if we should "out" someone else.C'mon people think about it. If you were the one who forgot your stash (how THAT happens I'll never know when people are afraid or their own shadow) and your friend (wife cousin paperboy) found it how would YOU feel if they came to you even in private and said "hey, you wear girl clothes?" I have visions of opening a door with a hundred mice and flipping the light switch...two hundred eyes open as wide as they can be and 400 scampering feet as they try and hide. This is exactly the reaction I would expect from the majority of CDers here.
"Uh, it was a Halloween costume." "Uh my wife makes me wear that." "Uh I was holding it for a friend." "uh I bought that tool box at an auction and I never opened it." There have even been threads here about HOW to lie about it when you get caught. If it were me I would look at you and say "What the he** were you doing in MY tool box?" (no keeping it in storage doesn't give you the right to use his tools, would you drive his Porsche if he left it with you?). Do you honestly think that they are going to look you in the eye and say "Yeah that's mine...and I like it." Maybe 10% chance of that at best.
Here's what you ask yourself. WWRPD (what would RuPaul Do ..since she is a god to the TG community). If it was you would you want someone to come to you and say..."Hey, nice duds...dude."? It is the same belief I have for the gay community and really any other community. It isn't your business to "Out" someone else. Out yourself first. Then if they want they can come to you and you can have a dress up party. Until then MYOB
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