Well, have you truly decided where you are and where you are going? If so, when are you going to let the cat out of the bag? I'm not saying Facebook is the best way to share this important news, of course.

I have let one high school friend (who dressed me up as a girl one Halloween since I was, "so inexperienced with clothes and makeup" ) know, after being assured of her trust. So far, it has worked well.

Kathi