UPDATE: Still don't know if she found my things but last night I finally told her about my cross dressing. I let her know that I have been doing this long before her and since I was very young. She was worried that I was I was gay and I reassured her that I was not and that I still very much in love with her. She said it is a lot to digest which it is. It was late and we needed to sleep. We held each other and I let her know I'm still the same person but I need to stop hiding this from her. This morning seemed ok but I'm sure this will take a lot of time and communication. Yes I do feel like it is off my shoulders but it doesn't sit well with me that it is now on hers. This is only day one.
