This morning seemed ok but I'm sure this will take a lot of time and communication. Yes I do feel like it is off my shoulders but it doesn't sit well with me that it is now on hers. This is only day one.
Congratulations, Spacey! You did the right thing.
You might want to tell your wife about the FAB section of this forum. She will need to talk to others about this too.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.