She might know now.

[Spacey]

Congratulations, Spacey! You did the right thing.

You might want to tell your wife about the FAB section of this forum. She will need to talk to others about this too.

In time I would like to do this. For now I don't want to overload her. I sent her the "Helping Wives" link found in the "How to tell your partner" thread. I think it can be a good ice breaker to further communication. I asked her to read it when she is ready. At this moment things are ok. I'm waiting patiently until she is ready to talk more.