Crossing dressing and dating guys?

[Sheila]

And, as for expressing your feminine side, is it generally the case that women "dress up" just to look at themselves?

No, they're acting with purpose and that purpose is directed at others. Certain others.

Get it now?

CDing is a purposeful activity, but, finely studied, it only has one ultimate destination.

"Not that there's anything wrong with that..."

Is there?

How sad, the implication of your words above appears to me to be that CDER's ultimately dress to attract men, if not in the beginning, then in the end............ or am I reading this wrong ?


There may be nothing wrong with dressing to attract men at all, but there is for many of us if,

A) you are in a committed relationship where it is generally assumed that fidelity is part of the contract Written, verbal or by societal implication/usage as deemed to be "the Norm" (please note the usage of GENERALLY ASSUMED)

if your feelings toward the same sex change to include wanting to attract them, after you have entered into A above and you do not inform your current partner

Openness to others in an intimate way in your life is a good thing so long as all parties are in agreement .......... otherwise some people may end up very hurt and angry


If your words are read as I believe them to mean, then perhaps I am more in agreement with Reine D than I thought earlier ......... I certainly don't need CDing in my life if that is the ultimate outcome