Quote Originally Posted by Rhonda Jean View Post
During what was perhaps our last "discussion" on the subject when I was trying unsucessfully to convince her that I was "just a crossdresser", she said, "No you're not! You're a WOMAN!

... Irrefutable evidence that I wanted to be a woman (or was one), and in her black and white world, women want to be with men.

Wow. Rhonda Jean, your honesty is awe inspiring. I wanted to quote your entire story, I appreciate your sharing it so much.

I do understand the part about your wife only being able to see the black and the white, and not the shades of gray. As GGs we understand our own motives, we understand the motives of non-CDs through our lifelong exposure to men, and so not being TG, it is difficult for us to understand anything in between.

I am so sorry that it played out this way for you.

Please tell me, what do you make of the majority of the respondents in this thread who want to be with men? Did you not fantasize about this? Didn't you go through a phase of wondering what it would be like? And what are your thoughts about those who point out that Tri-ess omits a basic truth about CDs, that fantasies about sex with men as a woman is a part of it and always has been since their youth?

Thank you for taking the time to respond to this. I really do need to hear your answers.