GAWD AM I TICKED OFF!!!!
...actuallynot..
your point is well taken in all its provocative glory
people need to do what they want...people make choices about their own safety and their own needs... if you don't do your own research then its on you if something doesnt work out...and one of the biggest things that I've seen is folks with unrealistic and fantastical views of HRT, transition and beyond..
free advice is worth alot more than nothing though..its not the end of anything...its just the start...
google is free...is it worthless? an open forum is a different version of the same thing. and this is an open forum with 100's of years of collective experience.... when i was getting divorced, i posted i was trans on a divorce forum hoping for some advice...once
like you Misty, i know that being smarter than everyone else is a very difficult burden (ahem)..but don't worry i'm not troubled by the contradiction in your posts! i think the worthless information you laid out is just as valuable as my worthless information!!
in the end, i think we are all going through an absolutely brutal destructive process..being trans is unlike anything else...having a "condition" that makes you feel worthless, being surrounded by folks that don't understand at best, and living in a world that mocks and belittles you sucks...and many folks are desperate for any kind of help..and I for one will try every time to help anyone that is going through it..and i think that's what you are doing too, even tho for some reason you feel our discussions are worthless...
one of the most rewarding things i have done since i accepted my fate and started my own feminization is to share what i've learned with others.
