if you act like a lady you will be treated as such.
i would say do not try to pick up on a L girl, let them take the first move.
Please don't get the wrong idea here, but out of curiosity.. Why would a lesbian make "the first move" on a man..or even a pre-op TS? I don't do gay bars so I am clueless.
Kel
"one day I'll fly away..... leave all this to yesterday"
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.