i tend to not go into very many "bars".
but i would think no matter where you are at if you act like a butt you will get treated as one.
if you act like a lady you will be treated as such.
i would say do not try to pick up on a L girl, let them take the first move.
and then there are places that one can only call "privet clubs". you will know very fast if so. just move on taking your money with you.
but report back on the places that do not want us there, that way we know were to not spend our moneys.