It is a common misconception that TG's threaten femininity especially with their SOs. I don't know which pioneer of psychiatry thought of this but it really has not been something I have ever really seen or been told in real life. I have never heard of a woman telling her TG spouse "Oh you are so much more girly than I am...I can't take it." We aren't a threat to femininity, the biggest issue is how we present that to the SO. As many here seem to hide it and hide it and then slam it like a pie in the face. The western society is so wrapped up in role standards that we don't see the whole picture.
If the OP is in anyway upset about the answers, I am sure there wasn't a direct plan to do that. We all have our perspectives. Questions like this just allow you to see other angles and maybe rethink what you "knew".
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And, travel agents do make great brothers (in my experience) so they probably do make great partners[/SIZE]