"...codswallop..." LMAO!!! Can I use that sometime???

Yeah, I like to cook and I've cleaned my house, did the laundry, and scrubbed out the bathrooms - all while drab. Huh... In fact, I've done all of that 'womans work' in drab both before and after getting married. So maybe it really has nothing to do with what gender clothes we're wearing...

That said, I kind of feel a little bad for the OP. I'm sure the posting was done in a feel-good mood, with nice responses expected. Instead... SLAMMO!!!! Kinda makes one think twice about posting something. Unfortunate, but it's life, so...