It sounds a little bit like you're trying to shift responsibility here. Some women will never "come around" to understanding a CD husband. Her viewpoint is probably she married a man - not a woman - and not even a man who sometimes dresses like a woman. And, she is 100% justified in feeling that way.
If you have truly given up CDing and want to mend the fence, that's one thing. If you're waiting for her to show some sign of acceptance, that may never happen.