However, after being both married and divorced, I think NOT telling your wife what you're up to will soon make her your EX!

Your dressing is a SERIOUS ISSUE! Along with all the others u may have, u MUST come to an amicable agreement with your wife about your dressing. If u try to give it up, sneak around on the side, or, she proves INFLEXIBLE on this, u mite consider separating NOW! Because it won't work for EITHER of u in the long run! Sorry, Julie!